FOR NEW BORNS & NEW MUMS

OH BABY - Birth, Babies & Motherhood Uncensored

Some Mums call it their “Bible” – others say they refer to it “religiously” – but either way it’s a phenomenally informative book, written by a Kiwi mother for soon-to-be mothers, and researched alongside leading Obstetricians, Midwives, Paediatricians & Holistic Healers.

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Day-1-Baby Heirloom Layette

So MANY new Parents bring the wrong clothing to Birthing Suit for their Brand New Baby, thinking they’ve bought the right thing. DON’T BE ONE OF THEM! MotherWise in conjunction with Roots & Wings 100% Merino-wool have created this absolutely unique and perfect first clothing for a Day-1-Baby.

Your child is going to wear special outfits for special events its entire life, from their 1st Birthday to their 21st Birthday, and from their School Ball to their Wedding Day. And on this MOST IMPORTANT DAY of their entire Life(!), when they are at their most vulnerable to cold-stress, this Day-1-Baby Layette will ensure your brand new Baby is purring’ly content with the perfect core temperature.

BACK-STORY: While catching hundreds and hundreds of babies as a senior Midwife, I found myself repeatedly frustrated at how dreadfully inappropriate the “Newborn” clothing oftentimes is that caring loving Parents would bring to Birthing Suite … not enough layers, ill-fitting hats, synthetic fibres, outfits the newborn is “swimming” in. You see, most new parents never realise “Newborn”-sized clothing is actually designed to fit a baby who is around 4-8 weeks of age who have typically put on weight and height. What fits a Day-1-Baby is VERY different to what fits a thriving 2-month old … even though 0-3 Month-Old clothing is all sold as one ‘Newborn’ size … but Babies are not ONE size for 3 months!

We strongly recommend investing in your precious Newborn having the correct clothing to wear on their Birth-Day, and for
their first 1-3 weeks of life. The Heirloom Layette consists of:

• 1 specially-designed Day-1-Baby long-sleeved singlet-bodysuit (to keep their vital organs warm)
• 1 specially-designed Day-1-Baby jumpsuit onesie-romper (to keep the rest of their body warm)
• 1 Beanie-Hat (to prevent rapid head-loss)
Then, for a personal touch, add on your favourite Cardy/Jumper/Jacket (especially in autumn, winter & spring).
These multiple layers of 100% finest-quality Merino wool are perfect to enable your Baby’s skin to breath naturally.

AND REMEMBER, THIS IS AN HEIRLOOM PRODUCT: That means, it is specifically designed to be handed down in your family – from sibling to sibling, from grandparent to grandbaby, over generations. Like a traditional baptismal-gown, the Day-1-Bay Layette becomes the very first clothing ALL your family’s Newborns will wear. This heirloom product becomes an Inherited family treasure, and a cherished bequeathed gift of tradition for many decades to come. (We provide a bespoke calico bagfor long-term storage).

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BabyOK Babe-Sleeper - Secure System - By Kathy Fray

​Described by many as the best infant sleep-secure ever designed! The BabyOK™ Babe-Sleeper is made with real care, and comes to you with a loving blend of modern and old-fashioned wisdom. Owning one is essential – Owning two is ideal! For 3-30 month olds.

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Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How to Calm, Connect and Communicate with Your Baby

Just as I have described with Ina May’s Guide to Childbirth, if you think in terms that my OH BABY’S Why They Cry chapter is like gaining your undergraduate Degree in learning to understand newborn body-language signs, then reading Tracy Hogg’s Secret of the Baby Whisperer book is like getting your Masters in learning how to (as she says) calm and connect and communicate with your baby. It is a wonderful accompaniment to OH BABY.

Post-Script: In 2001 this baby whisperer’s book became a New York Times best-seller. And just three years later Tracy Hogg had passed over from cancer. Oh what other amazing wisdom she could have taught us all, if only she had been on this Earth for longer. 

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The Happiest Baby on the Block - The New Way to Calm Crying and Help Your Newborn Baby Sleep Longer

Dr Harvey Karp is a famous L.A. paediatrican ‘to the stars’ who is renowned for teaching his Five S’s to creating a calm contented baby: Swaddling to recreate the womb snugness (not swaddling all day long); Side or Stomach positions for mellowing a baby (before putting to sleep on their back); Shushing sounds (babies are used to a noisy environment in the womb); Swing (rocking movements etc); and Suck (the ‘icing on the cake’ of the pacifier). If you’re getting frustrated with your baby appearing to spend so much time upset, then chances are they are overtired because they are overstimulated, and this is a great read to enhance your understandings. Knowledge is power.

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Hydrogel Breast Discs

This product is absofrigginlutely brilliant! To soothe sore nipples! And an essential for first-time breastfeeding mums. My best advice is to buy this 12-pack BEFORE your baby is born (have them packed in your postnatal bag) because you’re best to start using them from the first day of breastfeeding. As a midwife I have cured literally hundreds of cracked traumatised nipples combining this product with HyperCal lotion … but the biggest problem is women having to wait a few days to receive them after they have already started breastfeeding. (Their coolness feel divinely relieving straight out of the fridge too!)

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Mumdrop Wrap

It is really normal that by Day 2-4 a woman’s breasts are enormously enlarged for her, and for the next 4-8 weeks they will over-produce milk, as the babe’s appetite quickly increases over the first month,… typically by around 6 weeks, the whole supply-and-demand will have equalised, and her breast size settles down and becomes way more comfortable. But OMG I do remember, over 20 years ago, an amazing old-school midwife making me, out of a towel and safety-pins, the equivalent of this lactation wrap, and the cosy support felt absolutely divine! It could do for me, at that moment of aching engorged boobs, something way beyond anything a regular breastfeeding-bra could do. The Mumdrop™ comes in various sizes and can be worn day or night, with extra bedtime layers for overnight leaking absorbency protection. This product isn’t a god-send – it’s a goddess-send.

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Hydrogel Breast Discs

This product is absofrigginlutely brilliant! To soothe sore nipples! And an essential for first-time breastfeeding mums. My best advice is to buy this 12-pack BEFORE your baby is born (have them packed in your postnatal bag) because you’re best to start using them from the first day of breastfeeding. As a midwife I have cured literally hundreds of cracked traumatised nipples combining this product with HyperCal lotion … but the biggest problem is women having to wait a few days to receive them after they have already started breastfeeding. (Their coolness feel divinely relieving straight out of the fridge too!)

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Lactation Booster Biscuit Mix

Mine and Franny of BreastMates conversation at an Auckland BabyShow one year: “Franny babe, I really reckon you should create Lactation Cookie pre-mix sometime in the future –that’d be so good!” “Ha we just have Kathy darl – it’s our brand new product – have bite!!” I just luv luv luv this product. Breastfeeding mums can be so constantly hungry (while lactating our intestines are the most efficient they have ever been in our entire life … we eat, we digest, we’re hungry again). So why not munch on these perfectly nutritious and perfectly delectable freshly-baked semi-sweet oaty bickies?

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Haaka Silicone Breast Pump

I have never personally used this inventive gadget (it wasn’t invented when I was lactating) but I have had clients rave about this nifty all-in-one soft-silicone Haaka “breast-pump”. It is ideal for relieving engorgement, catching let-down overflow while feeding baby on the other breast, and for occasional expressing (ideal for travelling). You simply squeeze it to create suction to collect all that Liquid Gold, then as my dear friend Franny of BreastMates recommends, simply pour the collected milk into their Breast Milk Storage Bags and freeze. Easy peasy! Optional extras are the Haaka Lid (to keep contents sterile) and/or the Haaka Stopper (to prevent spillage).

NOTE: The Haaka does not replace a regular proper Breat-Pump (it does not stimulate or empty the breasts as efficiently). It is a handy extra item to own.

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Medela Swing Breast Pump

For more than two decades Medela has been my absolute favourite of electric breast-pumps – so efficient. Plus you can adjust the vacuum to suit your own comfort level. It takes electric or battery power, and it’s not noisy.
Perfect when you only need to pump a few times a day.

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Medela Swing Maxi Double Pump

This is, in my opinion, the absolute primo piece of equipment for women returning to the workforce and who need the best most efficient double-pumping technology available. It’s practically a hospital commercial grade piece of equipment – but still small, light, compact and quiet!

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YOUR NEXT STEPS

Something to elevate your confidence in your pregnancy journey.

 

Level up your confidence and feel fully prepared for every step of your maternity journey. Imagine having expert guidance at your fingertips, along with access to answers for all those pressing questions and topics that matter most to you. From navigating the milestones of pregnancy to preparing for labor and caring for your newborn, you'll have the support you need to feel informed, empowered, and ready. Embrace each stage with ease, knowing you’re equipped with the knowledge to make confident decisions for you and your baby.

MotherWise MasterClasses Virtual Prenatal Education Plus

 

The MotherWise MasterClasses Virtual Prenatal Education Plus is the perfect add-on to your core program, offering additional resources and guidance to make your journey even smoother. You’ll have access to twice-monthly live Q&A Zoom sessions on the 1st and 3rd Saturday, where you can ask questions and receive expert advice. Monthly topic webinars dive into key maternity subjects like labor preparation and newborn care. Enjoy 24/7 access to the Kathy Fray Q&A Library, offering answers to hundreds of maternity questions, and if you miss any live sessions, webinar recordings will be available in the portal for you to catch up anytime.

 

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MotherWise MasterClasses Virtual Prenatal Consultation

 

The MotherWise One-on-One Prenatal Guidance Program offers personalized support throughout your pregnancy with unlimited 20-minute Zoom sessions. Tailored to your unique needs, this program ensures you receive real-time expert advice, helping you navigate every stage of your maternity journey with confidence and peace of mind. Enjoy the reassurance of having professional guidance at your fingertips, ensuring the best possible experience for you and your baby.

 

 

 

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